Hi Jude.

Okay let me explain everything.
My best friend had an unofficial boyfriend who she knew i liked. This wasnt anything personal it just happened that he liked her, not me. I helped them both through their troublesome relationship by being someone to talk to, they broke up.

About a week after they break up, the guy confesses that he likes me. The day before we had just done some fun activity and said that he liked me because I was nice ot hang out with and because I was being myself. So we decided to hang out mroe often, rather than become unofficial girlfriend and boyfriend because that is too much drama for me....

But I don't really know what to do, I have this guy who's not allowed ot date, who likes me. I'm not allowed to date, I like him. I feel like we should tak about this, but he's not the type to have a long conversation about feelings or where the relationship stands. It's all pretty innocent but I want a little definition.

I just want to know where we stand, I mean were both single but we both have feelings for each other. We talk on a social network site every day and flirt. But I don't want him to think that I'm just here as his flirty firend whener he wants me. I do have a life and he's one of the more important things in it. I really like him, but my parents don't.

How should I ask him how exactly where going to do this?
He can't date, neither can I.
I like him, he likes me.
Were in a pickle. And I don't want him to think that with a few sweet words I'll just go gaga over him (even though it's true.)

I don't love him, but deep affection is prominent.