i could really do with some advice on this beacause it is annoying the hell out of me. I have been dating this girl for around 3 months and 2 weeks, and its amazing we are bot hdeeply inlove and both terrified of loosing the other. when we started i was a virgin and she wasnt she told me about this guy however i have just found out she had been with another guy on holiday once. she says the reason she didnt tell me is because she is ashamed and would rather pretend it never happened, also she says she knew it would hurt me. The problem is now that i cant stop thinking about it, its only been a couple of days since i found out is this acceptable? also she is going away in summer for 2 weeks with her best friend, before this was fine with me but with this new information i am finding it hard to trust her on the holiday, its a long way away but i dont know what i should do, am i just being silly and should just try and pretend it never happened, i really dont want this to affect me and her. any advice would be greatly appreciated.