Is he just a flirt??

Ok so I have liked this guy for a while now, but he is still confusing the heck out of me. I didn't even notice him at all until he sat next to me, THEN we started having conversations and I fell in like.

This all started in class when we started talking. Every day I would walk in the classroom and he'd be there with those adorable big blue eyes and gorgeous blonde hair. And he'd talk to me a LOT and tease me about things. I guess you'd call it flirting. Some days we'd talk about small things and sometimes we'd talk about deep things. I think we may have gotten in an argument a few times but it was all good because we'd be smiling our heads off the whole time. Now me, I'm not really good at flirting so my face would get all red a lot which would make him smile even more for some reason. I don't know maybe he was laughing at me. Also, when I'd talk he'd look at my mouth a lot which I heard was supposed to be a good sign. He also likes to get REALLY close to me which kind of freaks me out since I have a big personal space. He'd also touch me a lot, like if he wanted to get my attention or something. One time he wanted to share my book with him and he kept touching my hands a lot when he wanted to turn the page. My friend recently told me that he would glance up at me a lot when he was talking to his friends and smile when we'd pass in the hallway.

The thing is, is that I don't know what the heck this guy is doing. He used to have a girlfriend and he still talks with her even thigh they're seperated. And he also talks to a lot of other girls too. So I am wondering if he is a flirt and just likes attention or if he's genuinely interested in me.

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You won't know unless you ask him

He sounds like he's interested in you, but you can't know for sure unless you ask.

Talking to girls and ex's isn't a bad thing. Unless, he's just as touchy with them as with you, then he might be a flirt. However, if he's still able to talk to his ex, at least that's a sign that they broke up probably on good terms - meaning, if you did go out with him, and broke up, you might still be able to keep the friendship.

I've been lucky to still be friends with my ex's and that is certainly less stressful than constant bickering etc.

So my advice is to just ask. If you're really wondering what his intentions are, try to talk to him about it and you have to do it. Don't get a friend to talk for you - you don't want any miscommunications.

Best of luck

audrey | Thu, 01/07/2010 - 00:56

Thanks Audrey, I think I'll

Thanks Audrey, I think I'll give that a try.

Sam (not verified) | Mon, 01/11/2010 - 00:07