The Girl I like has feelings for another
I think I'm quite an idiot... still, I need help. This girl I like has feelings for another guy. I like her a lot, and she's a really nice friend... It looks like she doesn't stop thinking about that guy, well, I can't stop thinking about her. (Side note, I'm 15, same age as the girl and that guy). She's a shy girl, and doesn't talk too much. We go to different schools, and contact each other like... once every 2 weeks? She didn't tell the other guy she liked him, but her feelings are obviously there. I have absolutely no experience with this type of stuff. I'm usually the one giving out advice, and I never thought it would happen to me too. Give me an advice please?
Is the friendship important?
I think the big question is, do you want to keep the friendship? Is it very important? If it is, then my advice is, don't say anything. If she isn't interested in you, asking her out or expressing your feelings may make her shy away from you and make things very awkward.
I'm also a very shy girl and I've had guy friends tell me that they wanted to go out with me. That really ruined the relationship and has made things very difficult.
Right now it may feel like she's the one, but with time this can change.
I would keep the friendship if I were you.