My boyfriend and drugs me and him age 13 i am not on drugs tho:)
Hiya well my boyfriend Callum is everything i ever wanted i am only 13 and so is he. He is abit of a swear a holic but in a funny way like russel brand or what ever. He is a bit mad and acts daft in class he is not perfect but he is a good person. I love him to bits and he all ways treats me number one but him and some other lads have been excluded from school for dealing weed. These lads are hard and nasty but he isnt they have their dealings were they hang together but they are not very close. He cudn't have done this its not my Callum i want to believe him but i can't don't say break up with him cos i won't he needs me but i don't know what to do???
You should break up with him
If he's hanging around guys who deal weed when he's 13, he's probably dealing weed too.
I know you want to believe he's different- but every girl does. Don't fall for this trap. He doesn't need you right now; you can't help him. His parents will help him, and if they don't, there's not much you can do anyway.
What you can do is take care of yourself. Don't get yourself mixed up in this kind of problem-- you're only 13! Believe me, there will be other boys after him. I know it's hard now, but breaking up is the best thing to do.
Regards,
Jude
My boyfriend and drugs me and him age 13 i am not on drugs tho
You say that but he swears he is diffrent he started crying the other day cos i was trying to break up with him and he took my hands and told me he loves me and kissed me so sweetly. I can't lose him we need each other i love him to bits!
Seems to me that the trouble
Seems to me that the trouble here is that you love each other deeply, but move in very different circles. Does he have other friends who are not part of the drug scene? If he does, try to gently coax him into spending more time with that group, maybe even become friends with them yourself.
It might take quite a bit of time, but you may be able to get him to drift away from the rougher crowd without alienating him in the process. Trying to break up with him is probably not going to work and will probably hurt you as much if not more than it hurts him.
Its just a simple matter of carrot and stick: reinforce the good behavior, and (gently at first) punish the bad. Maybe try simply appearing cross with him and refusing to spend time with him while he is in the company of the drugs crowd, just try not to make it too obvious... boys can be pretty oblivious at times, but they can also react very badly if they know they are being manipulated.
OMG, You are 13, You don't
OMG, You are 13, You don't know How much you love someone yet! Get over Him, He is scum drug related (whether that's dealing or around) and he is not to be trusted...
You don't need him.