alrighty so i had a boy and girl bestfriend, we were like the three musketeers together. I told my girl friend that i like him and she seemed happy for me, but slowly she started flirting a lot with him and it drove me insane. Then in the 11th grade they went out for like a week. so i felt like she backstabbed me. But then in the 12th grade i asked him out and we went out for almost 1 month, i was really happy with him, cause i finally got with the guy ive liked for so long. But in new years of 2007 my girl best friend, that went out with him in the 11th grade, told me that he was only going out with me because he wanted to make her jealous, because apparently he still liked her. So i immediately broke up with him with anger through a text. But then after winter break my girl friend told me that it was just a rumor and that he did really like me, so i felt so horrible and started crying. so when we went back to school from winter break, i explained everything to him, he was upset with me his hair was messed up, he hasn't shaved, and his eyes were kind of watery. So i felt horrible. So i asked him if he can forgive me and move on from all this and try again, but he wasn't sure because he didn't like the fact that i believed his ex girlfriend over him, because the day before she told me that rumor, he called me in new years and told me that he likes me. So through all this drama going on i chose to be with another guy who liked me because my parents liked him more then the other guy. But i regretted that, because i still liked the other guy more. So for the rest of my senior year i was still with the other guy. But then i broke up with him 5 or 6 months later because he cheated on me several times and had another girlfriend while he was with me. So that made me even more regretful for choosing to be with him. So in the first semester of freshmen year in college i started talking to my ex boyfriend/best guy friend again because i still couldn't get over him. He talked back to me. And i would text him here and there. And then one day in Dec. 2008 i asked him if there is any potential for us to be together again. And he responded saying "We are really good friends, but that is all". So hearing that bummed me down and i started to move on. i haven't talked or texted him for a month. So i started talking to this new guy, and we started to go out. i liked him. But our relationship wasn't good. He wouldn't call me, text me or hang out with me for long periods of time. So i went to my ex boyfrind/best guy friend for advice. And he told me to break up with him because he agreed that he wasn't being a good boyfriend. but i decided to be more patient and still be with him. But right when i asked my ex boyfriend/best guy friend for advice, he started talking to me every now and then. Which was shocking to me because it would always be me to text him or talk to him. But i was still with the boyfriend. Then one day my ex called me and wanted to stop by house to hang out, but i told him that i was with my boyfriend right now. So we didn't ended up happening. So i was still with the boyfriend who wasn't really good to me still, i felt like i didn't even have a boyfriend. So then one day my ex started texting me, we were texting for a long time, then i asked him what he was doing right now, and he said "nothing, just thinking about when we saw AVP together". So i was starting to get curious about him, because he was bringing back all these times we had, when we were together. Then while we were still texting, he asked me if i wanted him to stop by and hang out, and i wasn't sure because i had a boyfriend already. But since he wasn't even talking to me for almost a week now, i said okay. So i sneaked out of my house and he sneaked out of his. We were hanging in his dads car, and it was like old times. We were laughing and joking around and catching up. Then slowly he started to get close to me and we ended up kissing...he was holding my hand and offered to "do it" buy i said no, and he was fine with that. Then he dropped me off back home. So now i was even more confused as to what was going on. And he texted me a day later, just seeing wats up. Then i broke up with my boyfriend before Valentines's Day because it was pretty much over already with him. Then on V-Day my ex boyfriend/best guy friend asked me if my friend and i wanted to hang out with him and his cousin. So we said yes, and i was all happpy and exited. But unfortunately it ended early, because my friends grandmother wanted us back home. So nothing ended up happening. Then like a week later i asked him to hang out. and he said okay, so he picked me up and we went to go eat at a little fast food place by our old high school. It was awesome talking to him, im always happy when he's with me. He offered to watch a movie after we ate, but i couldn't because my mom wanted me home. So that was it. Then along the way another of my ex boyfriend from the 9th grade, came back into my life and we became very good friends, so i told him about my ex boyfriend and how confused i was about him. He told me that he's playing games with me and to move on, so that got me upset. Then a week later my ex boyfriend/best guy friend called me to hang out and i said okay. we went to get some starbucks,and then hanged out at his house with his cousins. He was flirty with me but that's the type of guy he is, so i can never really tell. Then we all played baseball together. And then i went back home, so nothing happened yet again. Then the next week he called me to hang out again. i went bowling with him, his cousin, his brother, and one of his friends. It was so much fun. And when he dropped me of back home with his older brother, i gave him a hug goodbye like always and he told me to give him a kiss on the cheek so i did, and i went back home all happy. So i got even more confused. Because it felt like we just friends at first but then he ask's for a kiss. ??? He's the type of guy who texts me or hangs out with me one day then doesn't contact me in like a couple days. Its like contact once a week. So then i get all upset because he easily comes in and out of my heart. So i asked for help from one of my friends and he said to just forget about him and completely stop talking to him. But i wasn't sure about doing that. I would forget about him if he was just playing games with me, but i wouldn't want to leave him if he did have something for me. Then 1 week later he texts me "Hey my love lets go bowling". At that time i was with my friend that told me to stop talking to him, so she wanted me to ignore him .So i was kind of in the middle. Then the next day i texted him back telling him that i went to see a movie so couldn't hang out with him. He said "Admit it you hate me". haha. i told him no i don't. So now im still here wondering what is going to happen. So my questions are, does he like me or is he just playing games with him, because last year he said we are just friends then this year he has been asking me out, and we haven't gone out since we broke up in 2007. So??? please help me, its been going on for so long now.thank you