high school dating

okay... so i go to school with this very special girl that i like alot. she is already a pretty good friend of mine, but its not like im her best friend. i see hereveryday at school and we hang out quite a bit outside of school. heres the deal...she has been dating this guy for about two years now and he lives in new york and she lives in illinois. i see her just about everyday, he on the other hand sees her 5-6 times a year for a couple days at a time. she often gets in fights with him because she doesnt feel like he's committed to her anymore and seems to think that no matter what she will always be there. lately she has been getting sick of it. we just had our prom a couple weeks ago and previously to that she said "i dont see it lasting too much longer after prom"....i think she would have broken up with him if it had not been for him buying a plan ticket home to go to prom. i by the way am a junior and she is a senior. she is going to college at a place about an hour and a half from where i live and ill be going into my senior year of high school. i guess my real question is should i wait for the day that might not come too soon? or should i confess and tell her how i feel and maybe i guess you can say cause the breakup and she'll come to me. ive heard from a couple of friends that she does "like" me...im really stumped and dont know what to do. i know things with me and her would work out and i could be there for her and make her happy liike a boyfriend should. ive asked my close friends about what i should do and they said wait it out till at least after prom and things might take care of themselves...here i am two weeks after our prom things are basically the same between her and her boyfirend. idk what to do. any help here would be greatly appreciated--thanks

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Usually I advise against

Usually I advise against making a move when someone already has a boyfriend, but in your case, I'd say go for it. It sounds like she wants to move on, but she's not confident how to proceed.

You can give her that confidence by confessing.

I'd definitely tell her how you feel, as soon as there is an appropriate moment.

Regards,
Jude

Jude | Sun, 05/24/2009 - 22:56

thanks for the advice.... i

thanks for the advice.... i agree with that...

now i just gotta man up and find a time to do it i guess

Anonymous (not verified) | Wed, 05/27/2009 - 00:27